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Fayetteville (Ark.) Daily Democrat, Thursday, 14 Jan 1932
Plan Founders Day Program Next Month
[apparently the PTA minutes....]
....Two numbers by the high school glee club; a trio by Roberta Roberts, K. M. Comstock and Josie Allen Comstock, accompanied by Nadine Riggs......

JoEllen attended the University of Arkansas but transferred to the teacher's college in Russellville so she could get a teacher's certificate. She taught the youngest grades at Chester, AR. Two of her pupils were the niece and nephew of Ernie Adamson, who was at the time living with his older married sister. They eloped to Nashville, Tennessee in 1939.

Married in Franklin, Siimpson Co, KY, on 24 Aug 1939. Weymouth Adamson, age 24, parents Ray Adamson & Mary Harrison, born Chester, Ark. He was employed as a Clerk. Josie Ellen comstock, age 22, born Uniontown, Ark., to K. M. Comstock and Nora Hayes. He never signed the license. Married by Felix J. Sanders, Minister of the Methodist Church. witnesses were Mrs. Alfred Mitchell and Felix J. Sanders, Jr.

JoEllen left Ernie Adamson and returned with two-year-old Kay to Fayetteville to live with her parents. She attended Fayetteville Business College so that she could provide for her little family. One of the very quaint things found among JoEllen's papers was the American Penman Certificate of Proficiency to Jo Ellen Adamson for excellence in Rapid, Legible, Business Writing while a student in Fayetteville Business College under the personal instruction of H. O. Davis, dated 12 Jun 1943.

8 June 1944. Divorce Petition Coupon, Arkansas. Washington County Chancery Court. Josie Ellen Adamson, plaintiff; Wymouth D. Adamson, defendant. Married in Kentucky 24 Aug 1939. Cause - Desertion. Residence of Defendant - Kansas.

Northwest Arkansas Times. Friday, 15 Jun 1945, p.3
"Carneys Entertain Wedding Party"
Mr. and Mrs. Cy Carney entertained at dinner last night for members of the wedding party of their daughter Katherine, who is to be married to Kenneth Coatney, U. S. Coast Guard, tonight. Fourteen were present at the party at Ben Shiley's new Steak House, highway 71.
Guests were Mr. and Mrs. Cy Carney Jr. of Rudy; Miss Doris Kenner, Muskogee, Okla.; Miss Jean Whayne, Hampton; Miss Betty Long, Harrison; Mrs. Marjorie Glover, Little Rock; Miss Colleen Delzell, Van Buren; Miss Bonnie Wilkerson, Miss Bobbie Jean Delzell, and Mrs. JoEllen Adamson, Fayetteville.
The marriage will take place at 8 o'clock tonight at the First Baptist Church.

Marriage License. To be 28 Sep 1946, Washington Co, AR, officiated by a minister. Groom: Joseph Eugene McKim, age 28, born 2 Mar 1918, Arkansas, residence of Fayetteville, Accountant. Bride: Mrs. Josie E. Adamson, age 29, b. 21 Dec 1916, residence of Fayetteville, Secretary. Dated 25 Sep 1946.

From the Northwest Arkansas Times, published Fayetteville, AR, 30 Sep 1946, p.3
Joe Ellen Adamson is Married to Joe McKimm
Mr. and Mrs. K. M. Comstock announce the marriage of their daughter, Jo Ellen Adamson, to Joe McKimm, son of Mrs. Paul McKimm. The double ring ceremony was solemnized at 8 o'clock Saturday night at the First Christian Church with the Rev. John P. McConnell officiating.
Mrs. S. C. Bohart, organist, provided the wedding music. Preceding the ceremony, she played I Love You Truly, Ah Sweet Mystery of Life, Because, Always, Dreams, and Clair de Lune. During the ceremony she playing Wonderful One softly. The traditional wedding marches were used. Ira Allen Comstock, brother of the bride, sang At Dawning and To You.
The altar was banked with ferns and baskets of white chrysanthemums with seven-branch candelabra on either side. Candles were light preceding the ceremony by Graydon Comstock, brother of the bride, and Orville Spivey of Tulsa, the ushers.
The bride chose a wedding gown of pale pink lace and net fashioned with a round neckline, cap sleeves and bouffant skirt. She wore a coronet of pink roses and carried a bouquet of the same flowers. Her only ornament was a pearl necklace, gift of the bridegroom.
Mrs. K. M. Comstock, Jr, the matron of honor, wore a gown of light blue brocaced taffeta and a Juliet cap of rhinestones. She carried a bouquet of red roses.
Little Karen Kay Adamson was flower girl. Her dress of white net was fashioned like that of the bride and she wore a white ruffled headband.
Bill Moore of Fort Smith served as best man.
A reception at the home of the bride's parents followed the ceremony. A white satin cloth covered the bride's table, which was centered with an arrangement of pink roses and pink candles in crystal. The three-tiered wedding cake, topped with miniature bride and groom, was served by Mrs. Ira V. Comstock of Van Buren, an aunt of the bride. Another aunt, Mrs. Cy Carney, presided at the punch bowl. Mrs. Bruce Denney had charge of the bride's book.
Mrs. Comstock wore a blue crepe dress with black accessories for her daughter's wedding. Her corsage was of gardenias. Mrs. McKimm, mother of the bridegroom wore a light blue dress with brown accessories, and a gardenia corsage. After a whort wedding trip Mr. & Mrs. McKimm will be at home at 428 North College Avenue.
Our of town guests for the wedding were Mr. & Mrs. Orville Spivey and Mr. & Mrs. Charles C. Yarrington, all of Tulsa; Mrs. T. L. Delzell, Miss Colleen Delzell, Mr. & Mrs. Ira V. Comstock, Mrs. Maude Hudnut and Paul Comstock, all of Van Buren; Mrs. David King of Tahlequah, Okla.; Mr. & Mrs. Cy Carney Jr., Mr & Mrs. William Carney, all of Rudy; and Mr. & Mrs. Wallace B. Greenlee and Mr. & Mrs. Park Moore of Fort Smith.

Joe legally adopted JoEllen's daughter Kay, giving her his surname. They had two more daughters.

1947 Fayetteville, AR, City Directory
Comstock, Kenny M. (Nora), slsmn, home, 428 N. College Av
McKim, Jo Ellen, bkpr, Cy Carney Appliance Co. Residence: 428 N. College Av
McKim, Jos (Jo Ellen), slsmn, Cy Carney Appliance Co. Residence: 428 N. College Av
I had to look up neighbors I remembered
Next door - Diana Nunneley who bit.. Nunneley, Loren P., (Opal), artist, 420 N. College Av
on the other side was Patsy Kramer who had polio Kramer, Kelly, cook, McBride Steak House, res, 434 N. College Av and her mother Pauline, res: 434 N. College Av
Riley Renner lived across the street and I found her parents - Maurice Renner (Joyce), Pres. Renner & Co Inc. res: 425 N. College Av. His company's ad says "Best Fire, Casualty and Surety Companies"
My piano teacher: Mrs. Eliz Bohart, mus. tchr, 10 E. Lafayette, home, same.

1950 Census. Springdale, Washington Co, AR, Hh 230
707 Crouch
Joe E. McKim, 32, b. AR, Manager, salesman, Liquid Petroeum Gas Company
JoEllen, wife, 33, b. AR, Office Manage, Liquid Petroleum Gas Company
Karen K., dau, 10, b. TN

JoEllen is buried Friendship Cemetery north of Springdale, AR, next to Joe McKim.

The Morning News, Springdale, AR, September 14, 2008
Josie Ellen McKim
SPRINGDALE -- Jo Ellen McKim, 91, of Springdale died Sept. 13, 2008, at Circle of Life Hospice of Springdale. She was born Dec. 21, 1916 to Kenney and Nora Hays Comstock. She was preceded in death by her husband, Joe McKim, her parents, and three brothers, Graydon E. Comstock, Kenney M. Comstock and John J. Comstock.
Survivors include: three daughters, Kay Haden of Jacksonville, Fla.; JoAnn McKim and husband Allen Carney of Prairie Grove and Laurie Moore and husband Ron of Siloam Springs; and one brother, Ira A. Comstock of Virginia Beach, Va.; seven grandchildren, eight great-grandchildren, two nieces and four nephews.
She was a member of the First Christian Church of Springdale for 50 years where she was choir director, a member of the choir and the Joyful Ringers Handbell Choir. She served as deacon, an elder and on the Church Board. She was a member of the Washington Regional Medical Center Auxiliary. Jo Ellen was an avid support of the Rodeo of the Ozarks having attended every year from 1956 to 2008. She supported the Arkansas Razorbacks, holding the same 50-yard-line tickets since World War II. She participated in many other community activities through the years.
Jo Ellen started her working career as a teacher in Chester in 1937. She was the co-owner of Jo McKim L-P Gas Company, Inc. and Joe McKim, Inc.
Visitation will be from 6 to 8 p.m. Monday at the Sisco Funeral Chapel in Springdale.
Funeral service will be at 11 a.m. Tuesday at Sisco Funeral Chapel of Springdale with the Revs. Wendy Henry Feen and Bill Pettigrew officiating. Burial will be at Friendship Cemetery following the service.
Pallbearers will be Ron Moore, Lance Moore, Tyler Moore, Allen Carney, Dylan Brooks, Stuart Haden and Denny Flynn.
Memorials may be made to Circle of Life Hospice, 901 Jones Road, Springdale, AR, 72762.
Also appeared in The Northwest Arkansas Times, Sunday, Sep 14, 2008, p.2


JoEllen's daughter, Kay, gave the Eulogy at her service:

As her eldest daughter, I knew JoEllen longer than anyone here today. We moved to Springdale in 1948, when I was eight years old. This note has been on her refrigerator for some years - I'm sure it was how she felt about life. It says:
"Cherish Your Yesterday. Dream Your Tomorrows. But Live Your Todays."

The only daughter of Kenney & Nora Hays Comstock, she was named for her two grandmothers, Josie and Ellen. JoEllen grew up in the center of her four brothers; she would always be the center of her family. As was fitting in that time, she helped her mother with all the chores of the household - at school she wrote on a slate, carried in lunch packed in a pail, and wore her “good” dress everyday, changing into work clothes as soon as she got home. It's very hard for us to imagine those days.

She was always a helpmate to Joe McKim - he was her man and she worked with him side by side throughout their marriage - always supportive. She tithed to her church - she had been a member of First Christian Church, Springdale, for over fifty years, directing and singing in the choir. She gave unselfishly of her time or money, or both, to many local charitable organizations.

Jo Ellen aged with such grace and dignity. She accepted widowhood, downsizing to a smaller house and then smaller apartments, a narrowing world - always saying "this is the best place I've ever lived" and "I'm so happy here". She always kept herself well-dressed with makeup and jewelry - sometimes a problem in the elderly, but never for her. She was always lovely, sometimes even quite cute. She always kept busy, even though the tasks became less demanding as she aged.

She copied a Preface to a play The Time of Your Life written in 1939. She probably saw this play in New York city when she visited her brother in early 1940's leaving me with my grandparents. I believe this best describes her philosophy of life. I would like to read some excerpts:
"In the time of your life, live …so that in that good time there shall be no ugliness.
Seek goodness everywhere, and when it is found, bring it out of its hiding-place and let it be free and unashamed!
In the time of your life, live so that in that wondrous time you shall not add to the misery and sorrow of the world, but shall smile to the infinite delight and mystery of it."

Most of all, Mom was devoted to her three daughters, her seven grandchildren and eight great grandchildren. Every one of us has been the recipient of her love and pride. None of us will ever forget her sweet smile. I found this poem - written by my sister JoAnn, quite likely for a school assignment, that best expresses how we three girls fell about our mother.

LOVELINESS

There is a person very close to me
She's good and kind and full of grace.
A smile is always on her face.

Her arms are so gentle, but strong,
Her eyes are bright and soft brown.
She's always there to quiet my tears,
She's always there thru all her years.

In my eyes she's truly a great woman,
One more lovely than any other.
She gave me another life, but my own,
For she's spent her life, making my home.

I only pray that some day I may
Bring happiness to others that she brought to me.
My Mother.


JoEllen spent the last six years of her life at Arkanshire, a retirement community in Springdale. She was able to live there independently with cleaning services and meals in the common dining room. She made many dear friends, including a gentleman friend, Lee Strickland, who preceded her in death. We had a memorial service in the chapel at Arkanshire on Wednesday, September 17th. One of her friends, Vesta Logue, composed the following poem,
For my beloved Jo Ellen:
God saw her getting tired.
A cure was not to be.
So he wrapped his arms around her, and said
"Come go home with me"
A golden heart stopped beating.
Tired working hands came to rest.
God broke our hearts to prove,
He only takes the best.

Birth	21 Dec 1916	the house at Stony Point, Uniontown, Crawford County, Arkansas
Marriage	24 Aug 1939	Franklin, Simpson County, Kentucky - WEYMOUTH DONALD "Ernie" ADAMSON
Divorce	8 Jun 1944	Fayetteville, Washington County, Arkansas - WEYMOUTH DONALD "Ernie" ADAMSON
Marriage	28 Sep 1946	Fayetteville, Washington County, Arkansas - Joseph Eugene McKim
Death	13 Sep 2008	Springdale, Washington County, Arkansas
Burial	16 Sep 2008	Friendship Cemetery, Springdale, Washington County, Arkansas

Spouse	Joseph Eugene McKim (1918 - 1979)
Child	KAREN KAY Adamson [Adopted name McKIM] (1940 - )
Child	Living
Child	Living

Spouse	WEYMOUTH DONALD "Ernie" ADAMSON (1915 - 1982)
Child	KAREN KAY Adamson [Adopted name McKIM] (1940 - )

Father	KENNEY MARCUS COMSTOCK (1887 - 1958)
Mother	NORA LEE HAYS (1887 - 1973)
Sibling	Graydon Earl Comstock (1908 - 1983)
Sibling	Kenney Maurice Comstock (1914 - 2006)
Sibling	John James "Jay" Comstock (1919 - 2006)
Sibling	Ira Allen Comstock (1924 - 2021)

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