Individual Details

There are a few records in Louisa Co concerning the Haden family. One of the more interesting is an Unrecorded Deed as listed in the book, LOUISA CO RECORDS YOU PROBABLY NEVER SAW OF 18TH CENTURY VIRGINIA, compiled by John C. Bell, 1983.
p.58 [p.3-4 of original] William Slayden & wife to Jos. Haden, 6 Nov 1802. Wit: Ro. Yancey Wm Kimbrough, R. D. Hayden, M. P. Haden [wife was Sarah Slayden], Jos. Haden of Fluvanna Co. Proven by Yancey & Kimbrough on 13 Jun 1803. Tract was 4 1/8 acres.
It would seem that the Haden family in this deed could only be Joseph Haden who married Mary Peatross and his sons Joseph Peatross, Richard D., and Matthew P. Haden. I have no other source indicating the name of Matthew P.'s wife.]

Matthew's name first appears in the Fluvanna co Tax records in 1795 as over 21 and appears each year after that until he died. His will, dated 17 Feb 1807, is on file in Fluvanna Co VA and names his children.

Fluvanna Co Personal Property Tax List, 1802
Matthew P. Haden, 1 white male, 1 horse

Found on Google Books Calendar of Virginia State papers and other manuscripts
Jan 1, 1799 to Dec 31, 1807
Preserved in the Capitol at Richmond
Under the Authority of H. W. Flournoy
Vol. IX, Richmond, 1890
p.81 Friday, 24 Jan 1800 "Corresponding Committees"
For Fluvanna - Matthew P. Haden in place of Joseph Haden

Birth	Abt 1773
Death	Bef Feb 1807	Fluvanna County, Virginia
Marriage		Sarah Slayden

Spouse	Sarah Slayden ( - )
Child	William P, Haden ( - )
Child	Sophia O. Haden ( - )
Child	Joseph Todd Haden ( - )

Father	Joseph Haden (1752 - 1820)
Mother	Mary Peatross ( - )
Sibling	John Nelson Haden (1774 - 1822)
Sibling	Joannah Haden ( - 1821)
Sibling	Richard D. Haden (1776 - 1837)
Sibling	Anny Haden (1778 - 1820)
Sibling	Polly Haden (1781 - 1821)
Sibling	Joseph Peatross Haden (1783 - 1820)
Sibling	Jane or Jeanie Haden (1785 - 1821)
Sibling	Rebecca\Rhoda Haden (1786 - 1821)