| Father | Joab Oakes Jr. (1801 - 1863) |
| Mother | Elizabeth Hudson Kirby (1812 - 1874) |
| Sibling | Sarah Davis Oakes (1823 - 1900) |
| Sibling | Nathaniel Kirby Oakes (1825 - 1898) |
| Sibling | Moses Kirby Oakes (1828 - 1862) |
| Sibling | Daniel Webster Oakes (1829 - 1901) |
| Sibling | Samuel W Oakes (1830 - 1862) |
| Sibling | Eliza Catherine Oakes (1832 - 1933) |
| Sibling | Eliza Catherine Oakes (1832 - 1833) |
| Sibling | Cynthia M Oakes (1833 - 1870) |
| Sibling | George W Oakes (1835 - ) |
| Sibling | Martha W. Oakes (1837 - 1837) |
| Sibling | Martha W Oakes (1837 - ) |
| Sibling | Susan Missouri Oakes (1839 - 1938) |
| Sibling | Martha W. Oakes (1837 - 1837) |
| Sibling | Susan M Oakes (1839 - 1871) |
| Sibling | Mary Kate Oakes (1844 - 1872) |
| Sibling | Joab Anderson Oakes Jr (1844 - 1919) |
| Sibling | William Preston Oakes (1845 - 1914) |
| Sibling | Ruth S Oakes (1848 - 1850) |
| Sibling | Ruth S "Ruthie" Oakes (1848 - 1900) |
| Sibling | Kizzier Oakes (1850 - 1961) |
| Sibling | Keron Thankful Oakes (1850 - 1919) |
| Sibling | John W. Oakes (1851 - 1906) |