Individual Details

Vandewater is another spelling seen for Mary Ann's surname - also Vancy Waters. An unsourced online database gives her birth as 20 May 1832, Dickson Co, TN. She was a daughter of John Vandewater and Matilda [or Elizabeth] Meeker. She died 29 May 1913 in Allensville, Cape Girardeau County, MO. The data said Mary was with her parents in the 1850 census in Dickson Co, TN

1850 Census. Dickson Co, TN, Middle Dist, Hh 73
J. V. Waters, age 51, b. NJ
Elizabeth, age 56, b. NJ
Mary Ann, age 18, b. TN
Johnathan, age 15, b. TN

I believe this is Mary:
1910 Census. Hubble Twp, Cape Girardeau Co, MO. Hh 64
Samuel M. Taylor, age 65, married twice, the last time for 15 years, b. IL
Mary E., wife, age 34, b. IL, shown as having no children - but is the next her son - doesn't seem to be Samuel Taylor's....
John Logan Smith, son, age 18, b. IL
Mary Hayden, mother-in-law, age 84, widowed, born in TN.

Spouse	Richard Anderson Haden (1819 - )
Child	Elizabeth Haden (1854 - )
Child	Phebe Isabel Haden (1856 - )
Child	John Boyd Haden (1859 - 1868)
Child	Winnifred Almina "Minnie" Haden (1862 - 1928)
Child	Robert Franklin Haden (1865 - 1945)
Child	Richard Ewing Haden (1868 - 1869)
Child	Helen Virginia Haden (1870 - )
Child	Mary Rebecca Haden (1874 - )