Individual Details

Marriage

Children in this source
Likely Almira – she has a son William Barker Carr and daughter Sarah Foster Carr – she also has a daughter Mary Tufts Carr which would fit with Sally’s husband
https://books.google.com/books?id=TgE8AAAAIAAJ&pg=PA9&lpg=PA9&dq=maine+historical+magazine+the+carr+family&source=bl&ots=c_ToVr00pA&sig=ACfU3U2no0MuMQjWNGgxd0cA9CkWrjsJxw&hl=en&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwjJy5qU9vDoAhXWknIEHQwrBnAQ6AEwAHoECAsQKQ#v=onepage&q=maine%20historical%20magazine%20the%20carr%20family&f=false

Probate

There is a will somewhere
https://www.ancestry.com/imageviewer/collections/8994/images/007139140_00034?treeid=&personid=&hintid=&queryId=185e7e1a46294035c742adf06c920c41&usePUB=true&_phsrc=JMM21321&_phstart=successSource&usePUBJs=true&pId=1166830
 
Index to his probate record
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:3QSQ-G9WZ-3V1L?i=32&cc=2040534&cat=291660
 
the will – wife Almira, son Joseph, daughter Sarah wife of Francis H. Upton, son William B. Carr, daughter Esther wife of son Joseph,granddaughter Ann Thornton McGaw – there is also a codicil
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:3QS7-L9WZ-WQR6?i=299&wc=MHXN-PNG%3A383210401%2C383242301&cc=2040534

Biography

Maine Historical Magazine
https://books.google.com/books?id=TgE8AAAAIAAJ&pg=PA10&lpg=PA10&dq=Joseph+Carr,+son+of+Francis+Carr,+born+Nov.+14,+1773;+died+in+New+York,+Oct.+3,+1849&source=bl&ots=c-LiUs-ZpC&sig=ACfU3U0W8UYNvK3UdX87dzLoEQpEwH6Bvg&hl=en&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwix_f-N3IXsAhUMmXIEHSJ8CAUQ6AEwAnoECAkQAQ#v=onepage&q=Joseph%20Carr%2C%20son%20of%20Francis%20Carr%2C%20born%20Nov.%2014%2C%201773%3B%20died%20in%20New%20York%2C%20Oct.%203%2C%201849&f=false
 
Joseph Carr, son of Francis Carr, born Nov. 14, 1773;died in New York, Oct. 3, 1849. He removed to Orrington, now Brewer Village, in 1799, where he was in business with his father and brother James, until his removal to Bangor, and after. He held many town offices in Orrington and Bangor, and also represented both towns in the General Court. He removed to Bangor, was inspector of revenue for the port of Bangor, 1816. He was a merchant, greatly respected as an honorable and upright man. He joined the First Church in Bangor, Aug. 31, 1834. He married Miss Almira Barber, in Worcester, Mass., Oct., 1802. She joined the First Church in Bangor, July 8,1812.