Individual Details
Eliakim Stow
(2 Mar 1708 - 19 Aug 1789)
Eliakim Stow and Lydia (Miller) Stow lived in Middlefield, where he built a house on a hill above the brook Besek, near■ the present Baileyville. When he selected the site for the house it was on such a steep hillside that his father-in-law, Benjamin Miller, refused to come to the raising, there being a beautiful level building spot higher up the hill and further south, which Benjamin Miller preferred, but Eliakim Stow would not occupy. Possibly some of the obstinacy which crops out in later generations may have been bequeathed by one or both of these ancestors. Several other incidents illustrative of the same trait are told of Eliakim Stow and his son Elihu. Eliakim Stow was a zealous Revolutionary patriot. He rendered all the material that could be spared from his farm and, from principle, received Continental money at par for everything he had to sell for the army.
Events
Birth | 2 Mar 1708 | Middletown, Middlesex County, Connecticut | |||
Marriage | 13 Dec 1732 | Middletown, Middlesex, Connecticut - Lydia Miller | |||
Death | 19 Aug 1789 | Granville, Hampden County, Massachusetts |
Families
Spouse | Lydia Miller (1711 - 1761) |
Child | Lydia Stow (1733 - 1825) |
Child | Phoebe Stow (1735 - 1813) |
Child | Elihu Stow (1736 - 1812) |
Child | Thankful Stow (1738 - 1779) |
Child | Sarah Stow (1739 - 1822) |
Child | Hannah Stow (1741 - 1761) |
Child | Eliakim Stow (1743 - 1743) |
Child | Ebenezer Stow (1745 - 1824) |
Child | Benjamin Stow (1747 - 1793) |
Child | Mary Stow (1752 - 1815) |
Child | Daniel Stow (1754 - 1816) |
Spouse | Spalding ( - ) |
Child | Sarah Stow ( - ) |
Father | Nathaniel Stow (1676 - 1727) |
Mother | Sarah Sumner (1685 - 1759) |
Sibling | Hannah Stow (1703 - 1780) |
Sibling | Nathaniel Stowe (1705 - 1776) |
Notes
Death
GranvilleHampden County
Massachusetts, USA
Plot: Located in Granville. grave is located at top of hill just off of the gate.
He and his wife, Mercy, are buried in the oldest graveyard in Middlefield. His tombstone has a Latin inscription around the top, and a carved representation of a hand coming out of the clouds cutting down an old tree; then: "Here lies the body of Mr. Benjamin Miller, who died Nov. 22d, 1747, in his 76th year." Hers is inscribed: "In memory of Mrs. Mercy Miller, relict of Mr. Benjamin Miller, who died Feb. 1756, in her 79th year."
"Behold and see, as you pass by,
"As you are now, so once was I,
"As I am now, so you must be;
"Prepare to die and follow me."