Individual Details

Death

R.L. "Butch" Furr, a man of boundless energy, unyielding determination, and unwavering love for his family, departed from this world on Saturday, April 13, 2024, leaving behind a legacy etched in the hearts of all who knew him. Born on Christmas day, December 25, 1943, in Tulsa, to Rubert H. "Preach" Furr and Emma Francis "Babe" Furr, Butch's life journey was marked by resilience, hard work, and a steadfast commitment to those he held dear. Growing up in Tulsa, Butch's spirit was forged on the playing fields of McLain High School, where he excelled as an athlete, leaving an indelible mark in track and baseball. He even tried his hand at the daring sport of bull riding. Throughout his life he enjoyed duck hunting, deer hunting and fishing. He was also an avid OU football fan, never missing a game. Butch found a lifelong partner in fellow co-worker, Kay Killough, while working at the local Red Bud Store. On July 2, 1963, Butch and Kay were united in marriage. Together they embarked on a journey filled with love, laughter, and shared dreams. Throughout their years together, they created a home in Tulsa and Sand Springs, weaving a tapestry of cherished memories and enduring bonds. Even though they were unable to always live together they continued to be friends who loved and supported one another and their family. Butch's professional pursuits were marked by excellence and achievement. From his early days at The Red Bud to his remarkable ascent in the construction industry, Butch's tenacity and skill earned him accolades, including the prestigious Patterson Award in 1965, naming him, Outstanding Carpenter Apprentice of the Southern States Apprenticeship Conference. As one of the superintendents on the iconic Williams Tower (currently known as the BOK Tower), his contributions to the skyline of Tulsa will forever be remembered. Yet, amidst his professional endeavors, Butch's heart remained rooted in his family. He was the epitome of a devoted father, brother, and grandfather, finding joy in the simple pleasures of tending to his garden, sharing meals with loved ones, and lending a helping hand whenever needed. His presence brought warmth and comfort to those around him, and his unwavering support was a beacon of strength in times of need. In retirement, Butch continued to impart his wisdom and passion for craftsmanship, making regular visits to construction sites to check on the work being completed. His dedication to excellence was matched only by his boundless generosity and kindness, leaving an indelible impression on all who had the privilege of knowing him. He was not only a man of industry but also a historian at heart. His fascination with World War II led him to amass an extensive memorabilia collection, a testament to his deep appreciation for history and the sacrifices of those who came before. Additionally, Butch was also dedicated to the legacy of Charles Page. Butch's memory will forever be cherished by his daughter, Jackie Bliss and husband, Echota West of Sand Springs; his sister, Lonna Barr of Tulsa; his grandchildren: Katy Brown and husband, Andrew of Sand Springs, and Emma Plute and husband, Brandon of Mannford; his great-grandchildren: Tucker Brown and Wesley Plute, and a host of relatives and friends whose lives he touched with his irreplaceable spirit. Memorial contributions may be made to the American Legion Post 1, 1120 E. 8th St., Tulsa, OK 74120. A fitting tribute to Butch's unwavering patriotism and commitment to his community. As we bid farewell to a beloved father, brother, and friend, let us take solace in the knowledge that Butch's legacy of love, laughter, and resilience will continue to inspire us all. Funeral services will be held at 10:30 a.m. on Monday, April 22, at the Mobley-Groesbeck Funeral Home Chapel, with John Litterell officiating. Followed by burial at Woodland Memorial Park. Arrangements are entrusted to the care of Mobley-Groesbeck Funeral Service of Sand Springs.