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Paulette Elizabeth Peterson
(25 Jun 1957 - 16 Oct 2004)
She lived life in a large way, courageous beyond words and determined to maximize each day during four years with breast cancer. Quoting from an interview during her 2002 participation in the local Breast Cancer 3-Day Walk: "I'm not a cancer survivor, I'm a thriver!" Traveling was a life-long passion and Paulette enjoyed Italy's rich art history, China's spirituality, France's fine dining, and South America's natural wonders, among countless other foreign and domestic destinations. Her friends and family will remember her dramatic flair in terms of dress, experiences, and entertaining. Paulette was a terrific cook and an innovative (and meticulous) hostess.
We are thankful for the many bright spots Paulette brought to our lives. We will remember her courage and honor her by the way we (her family) live our lives. So many people, close friends and acquaintances, expressed great kindness and thoughtfulness during her illness. Her family truly appreciates the way your actions brought joy, love, and peace to her and to us. She was preceded in death by her mother and brother, Lila and Danny Peterson. She is survived by her husband, Bruce Kirkpatrick, her father, Carl B. Peterson; her sister Claudette Phariss and husband Doug; her sister Jill Peterson; her niece Madeline Sides; her nephews: Michael Parr, Todd Parr, and Taylor Sides, three great nephews, and two great nieces. Paulette had a special love for the children and delighted in surprising them with unique gifts and memorable experiences. She will be missed more than words can express.
In lieu of flowers, Paulette asked that donations be made to the Bay Area Breast Cancer Network (www.babcn.org) or to Works/San Jose (www.workssanjose.org), two local organizations that she was deeply committed to and enriched by. A memorial service to celebrate Paulette's life and art will be held on Saturday, November 13th from 3:00 to 5:00 p.m. at the San Jose Museum of Art.
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Spouse | Bruce Eric Kirkpatrick (1958 - ) |
Endnotes
1. Ancestry.com, California Birth Index, 1905-1995 (Provo, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations Inc, 2005), Database online. Birthdate: 25 Jun 1957; Birth County: Fresno..
2. E-Mail from Robert Kirkpatrick; 8 Nov 2004..
3. Ancestry.com, Social Security Death Index (Provo, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations Inc, 2010), Database online. Number: ; Issue State: California; Issue Date: 1974..
4. Obituary of Paulette Peterson Kirkpatrick, The Mercury News, San Jose, California, November 4, 2004.
5. Ancestry.com, Social Security Death Index (Provo, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations Inc, 2010), Database online. Number: ; Issue State: California; Issue Date: 1974..
6. E-Mail from Robert Kirkpatrick; 8 Nov 2004..
7. Obituary of Paulette Peterson Kirkpatrick, The Mercury News, San Jose, California, November 4, 2004.
8. Ancestry.com, California Birth Index, 1905-1995 (Provo, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations Inc, 2005), Database online. Birthdate: 25 Jun 1957; Birth County: Fresno..
9. Ancestry.com, Social Security Death Index (Provo, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations Inc, 2010), Database online. Number: ; Issue State: California; Issue Date: 1974..
10. Ancestry.com, Social Security Death Index (Provo, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations Inc, 2010), Database online. Number: ; Issue State: California; Issue Date: 1974..
11. Obituary of Paulette Peterson Kirkpatrick, The Mercury News, San Jose, California, November 4, 2004.